A memory still feels close
Time has passed, but one moment can bring back the same tension, fear, or sadness with surprising force.
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You know the moment is over. Your body did not get the memo.
EMDR offers a structured way to work with memories, reactions, and beliefs that keep showing up long after you wish they would stop.
Time has passed, but one moment can bring back the same tension, fear, or sadness with surprising force.
A place, sound, date, or conversation can feel like too much, so your world has slowly gotten smaller.
Your shoulders tighten or your heart starts racing before you have time to explain why.
You understand what happened. That understanding has not changed how the memory lands in your body.
Part of you still carries blame, shame, or a sense that you should have done something differently.
EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. During part of the work, you focus on a memory while following eye movements or another form of left-right stimulation. The goal is to help the memory feel less raw, not erase it or pretend it did not happen.
We prepare before processing anything difficult. We talk about what brings you in, practice ways to stay grounded, and decide together what feels manageable. I am EMDR trained, and I will not throw you into the deep end on day one.
You stay aware of the present while noticing pieces of the memory, thoughts, feelings, or body sensations. You do not have to give me a detailed play-by-play for the work to move forward.
I offer EMDR virtually. We plan the setup together and use eye movements or another form of bilateral stimulation that works through video.
No. I need enough context to guide the process safely, but you do not have to describe every part of a memory out loud.
We begin with your history, what you want help with, and preparation. We build grounding skills and make a plan before any memory processing begins.